a piece of advice my dad gave me and I’ve never forgotten is, “if you won’t worry about it in 4 months, don’t worry about it now.” saved me countless times, it’s a philosophy to adopt and help improve your life. Failed a test? ask yourself if you’ll think about this still in 4 months? Made a fool of yourself in public? I doubt even the people who saw it will remember it past today. Know you could have done better? Ran further? don’t beat yourself up over it, you can do better tomorrow. Don’t overthink things, a lot of negatives matter less than you think they do.
Tag: self care

There is a word that I hear tossed around a lot in self-talk that needs to be DESTROYED and that is the word ‘pathetic’. Stop calling yourself pathetic. Stop it right now. You are not pathetic. Your situation is not pathetic. You are strong, capable and resilient. Cut that talk out.

I’ve touched on this theme many times in previous illustrations, but anxiety is such a difficult, ever-morphing problem that I have found this argument to be continually relevant.
- YOU AREN’T AN IDIOT FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG
- YOU AREN’T AN IDIOT FOR SAYING SOMETHING WRONG
- YOU AREN’T AN IDIOT FOR NOT KNOWING SOMETHING
- YOU AREN’T AN IDIOT
- YOU ARE A WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING AND I LOVE YOU SO, SO MUCH
I’ve needed this for so long
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